{"id":51468,"date":"2018-04-05T00:08:42","date_gmt":"2018-04-05T07:08:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/?p=51468"},"modified":"2018-04-05T00:08:47","modified_gmt":"2018-04-05T07:08:47","slug":"different-perspectives-by-dr-raghavendra-rao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/different-perspectives-by-dr-raghavendra-rao\/","title":{"rendered":"Different Perspectives: by Dr. Raghavendra Rao"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAnu, Nandini, anybody. Can you hear me? The sun is scorching my head. Come and move my wheelchair.\u201d Grandma Gangamma hollered sitting under the mulberry tree in the front yard. She wore a white sari that covered her shaved head which offered little protection against the sun.<\/p>\n<p>Widow Gangamma was about 75 years old. If anyone asked her age, she told different figures every time. \u201cWho knows?\u201d she said smiling, \u201cwho knows when Ganga was born?\u201d She meant the Holy Ganges this time.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrakash, your mother, why she hollers like this? Our neighbors will think that we\u2019re ill-treating her,\u201d Anushka said while cutting okra in the kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnu, be patient. She can\u2019t hear well and because of the immature cataracts, can\u2019t see well. She gets tired easily so uses the wheelchair often. You know, people who are hearing handicapped usually talk loud.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou always support your mother. The other day she hung wet clothes to dry in the backyard and our pesky neighbor inquired whether we have a dryer. I felt bad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMother grew up and lived in a village in India and this is how she dried the clothes there. I\u2019ll tell mother not to do so.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nandini, an eight-year-old granddaughter, a third grader, heard Grandma. She ran out, her two ponytails flying in the air behind. She gently patted Grandma\u2019s shoulders and pushed the wheelchair inside and helped her to bed. She brought Grandma a glass of dilute buttermilk. \u201cDrink this, Grandma, you\u2019ll feel better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLive for a hundred years,\u201d Grandma blessed.<\/p>\n<p>Nandini went to her room. She could hear the conversation of her parents in the kitchen. Children have that knack even while studying.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrakash, your brother, Krishna and sister-in-law in Bombay should share the responsibility for mother\u2019s care. I need a break. After a couple of years, we can get her back. Why don\u2019t you talk to Krishna about it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnu, I don\u2019t mind asking him, but I know what the answer will be. They live in a one room apartment and a small kitchen with their two children. There is no place for mother.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrakash, you\u2019re spineless. Is it my responsibility to care for her always? Look at my friend, Vanaja. She placed her mother in a nursing home. Last year they went to Alaska, before that to Mongolia\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat is there in Mongolia?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNomads, horses.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have horses here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cStop it, Prakash.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSorry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat am I doing here? Washing this old lady\u2019s clothes, cleaning her adult briefs, giving baths and cooking for her. What a life I have. It\u2019s all my <em>karma<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnu, listen. I\u2019m receiving a bonus this December. I\u2019ll consult an eye doctor and get mother\u2019s eyes fixed. I will buy her hearing aids. She\u2019ll see and hear better. I\u2019ll subscribe for <em>Bhakti\u00a0<\/em>channel. That will keep her busy and she\u2019ll be calm. What do you think?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll right. Let us see. This means I won\u2019t have the diamond ear studs that you promised for Christmas.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a data-size=\"850x850\" href=\"http:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-51470\" src=\"https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"850\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03.jpg 850w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-372x372.jpg 372w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-576x576.jpg 576w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-550x550.jpg 550w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-470x470.jpg 470w, https:\/\/siliconeer.com\/current\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/PAGE-FICTION-RAO-DifferentPerspectives-03-560x560.jpg 560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>With the money he received as bonus, Prakash bought hearing aids and had his mother\u2019s cataracts removed. She sat in front of the TV set and enjoyed Telugu movies and the <em>Bhakti\u00a0<\/em>channel.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNandini, look, this is N.T. Rama Rao. He looks like God Krishna. When they placed his huge cardboard poster in front of the movie theater, hundreds of people came and prayed, and broke coconuts thinking that he was the real God. They lit incense sticks and danced. This happened long ago in India.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then she narrated to Nandini the great deeds performed by God Rama.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrandma, have you seen God? Does he really look like Rama Rao?\u201d Nandini asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn whatever way you imagine God to be, in that form He\u2019ll appear to you. Now, go and do your homework.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One evening while ironing the clothes, Anushka spoke to Prakash in the master bedroom. \u201cNowadays, I don\u2019t get to watch TV. I used to enjoy soap operas and Top Chef Shows but now your mother practically lives in the family room watching Bhakti channel. She is teaching Nandini all sorts of religious things and rubbing her views on her. I don\u2019t think it\u2019s good. Dear, you should reconsider my suggestion to send her to your brother\u2019s place for a year or two.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, Nandini entered the master bedroom. \u201cMom, Dad, I heard your conversation.\u201d She looked straight at them. \u201cI don\u2019t know why you want to send Grandma to Bombay. Mom, unlike grandma, you hardly spend any time with me. You\u2019re busy with your Woman\u2019s Club meetings, knitting classes, watching Top Chef Shows and soap operas. Dad, you\u2019re occupied with your private practice and have no time to spend quality time with me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrandma has studied up to the eighth grade and knows some English and Mathematics. She helps me with my homework. Ours is a rich culture. She tells me stories full of moral values from the epics, <em>Ramayana <\/em>and <em>Mahabharata<\/em>, which I never knew. She talks about our heritage. She told me the events that happened to grandpa, great grandpa and other family members. I learned a lot from Grandma. Did you ever tell me anything about our ancestors?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMom, if you plan to send Grandma to Bombay, please get me a ticket too. I will accompany Grandma. I\u2019ll be happy with her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nandini, with tears in her eyes, turned around and walked out of the room.<\/p>\n<p>Anushka and Prakash stood speechless.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAnu, Nandini, anybody. Can you hear me? The sun is scorching my head. Come and move my wheelchair.\u201d Grandma Gangamma hollered sitting under the mulberry tree in the front yard. She wore a white sari that covered her shaved head which offered little protection against the sun. Widow Gangamma was about 75 years old. 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